Let's talk about something that is uncomfortable but all too real. Domestic violence. It touches every region of the country and is a topic that is easy to brush off unless you're involved in it. According to the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (www.ncdav.org) 1 in 15 children are exposed to intimate partner violence each year, and 90% of these children are eyewitnesses to this violence. In addition to this, it's reported that 60% of women have suffered abuse at some point in their life and 29% reported they've been in an abusive relationship.
If you are being abused by your partner, know there is nothing you have done or are doing to cause the abuse. It is solely the choice of the abuser to abuse. It may seem impossible to escape your abuser, change your circumstances, or find the help you need, but it is possible. However, you know your abuser best, so think carefully through your situation and circumstances and do what is the best for you.
If you are in immediate danger, call 9-1-1.
For anonymous, confidential help, 24/7, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY).
For local resources see:
SafeHouse Denver: SafeHouse Denver serves survivors of domestic violence and their children through both an emergency shelter and a non-residential Counseling and Advocacy Center
Project Safeguard: Project Safeguard pursues safety and justice for victims of domestic violence through direct court support, advocacy services, and legal system reforms
Colorado Coalition Against Domestic Violence: Is set out to provide education and resources on issues of domestic violence
Almost Home: Has a goal to prevent homelessness and provide temporary and permanently affordable housing for those who are in need of assistance
Access Housing: ACCESS Housing helps families facing homelessness achieve self-sufficiency and permanent housing through a continuum of care in collaboration with community partners.
